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Behaviors like this one may point to a paranoid style of thinking. Other examples of responding to situations in a paranoid manner include believing that others are plotting against her, thinking that the teachers have it in for her, or worrying that people are always watching her. Cutting: If you ever see scars, open wounds, or other signs of cutting along your teen's arms, legs, or torso, seek a mental health consultation as soon as possible. I had rather hoped that she would know the answer to it, but she seems to think that I might be the expert on me. I don't know what to say so I go on word strike and wait for her to speak. Eventually she does. The statement sits awkwardly between us, as if she's not sure--and I'm not sure--if I want to halt the hijacking. I'm momentarily baffled, because the concept that I could control my switching feels alien and almost insulting. I sit and think for a moment. What's the real issue here? She holds my gaze, softly. I think she can sense my simmering aggression, ready to defend myself, and she's trying to dial it down with the gentleness of her response. Everything about her, in this moment, feels like a winter duvet, soft and saggy and inviting, compared to my brittle, jagged edges. Studies are beginning to show a significant increase in T-4 cells following acupuncture therapy. Your acu-pro will have also done a thorough initial visit to be able to assist you in general health and life quality. Many patients are finding that adding an acupuncturist to their cancer treatment team helps them feel better during the process of healing. Healing Hands: Acupressure and Reflexology The benefits of a healing touch can bring about much-needed relaxation, may reduce pain, encourage lymph flow, reduce edema, decrease nausea, and improve sleep. Acupressure and foot reflexology (see article 3, The Origins of Oriental Medicine) can help you feel more in control and assist you in adjusting to body changes from surgery, chemotherapy, and cancer. According to Massage Magazine (March/April 2000), patients who are touched during treatment experience a greater sense of relaxation and less insomnia, nausea, anxiety, depression, pain, and need for medication.

There are some considerations to keep in mind when giving self-acupressure or getting a treatment from a friend or practitioner: Avoid therapy on the specific site of the cancer. This can aggravate your pain. The only exception is if you hear a logical, plausible, coherent story that explains why the marks are on your teen's body -- and you don't see a reappearance of them. Other self-mutilation: Other signs of self-mutilation behavior include burns, pin marks, and repeated accidental actions that result in bodily harm. You need to realize that your teen probably won't be able to disclose these behaviors easily and may very well lie to keep you from knowing what's going on. More often than not, teens cover up self-harming behaviors to avoid feeling intense shame from letting their parents know about their troubles. Intense, unstable relationships: Okay, teens often have fairly unstable relationships. But most kids have a few friendships that last for years. If your child or adolescent has a pattern of acquiring friends, feeling unusually intense about those friends, and then dumping them for inexplicable reasons, you may want to encourage your teen to seek out help. Other teens may show intense fears of abandonment by their friends or family members. Severe mood swings: Once again, teenagers have a tendency to show moodiness. However, this symptom refers to going from utter despair to euphoria or giddiness. Do you think they're wrong? I look away sharply. I feel suddenly naked and slightly drifty. I try to look at her but she's become translucent. When I ask, sometimes, for them to stay back and for you to be present? On the one hand, when they come, afterwards you feel ashamed and out of control, so it's something that you want to stop happening. But if I ever suggest learning to take control of your switching, you feel like it's a personal rejection?

Ouch, ouch, ouch. I sigh semi-angrily. She swivels slightly in her chair, as if she's trying to come closer without reducing the physical distance between us. Do not use direct pressure on sites that contain a surgical wound, redness, or inflammation from radiation treatment. There may also be body positions that are uncomfortable while you are receiving a treatment. The National Cancer Institute of the National Institutes of Health endorses the use of massage, pressure, and vibration for musculoskeletal pain in cancer patients during all phases of treatment. Be aware of the amount of pressure that you use. Use light to moderate pressure, especially if you are receiving chemotherapy treatments. Comfort is important to the overall effect, and chemotherapy places a heavy toxin load on the body. Finally, let your physician know that you are receiving acupressure therapy and ask for any input regarding your sessions. Speaking with your physician affords a chance for both of you to learn. Bodywork, which can be loosely defined as any kind of therapy that touches your skin, is being used throughout North America in private clinics, hospitals, and medical centers as part of a comprehensive treatment plan for cancer patients. Stanford University Hospital has been offering it since 1993. Moods change rapidly and intensely. Often the moods are inappropriate to what's been going on. Threats of violence: Kids sometimes say they hate their parents. Occasionally, they may even scream that they want to kill them. However, if your child starts to destroy property, take swings at you, or threaten violence to friends or teachers, you need to take these threats seriously. We strongly recommend that you and your child consult with a mental health professional. Unstable self-concept and sense of identity: Most teenagers struggle some with this issue.

However, when kids rely solely on opinions of peers for determining how they feel about themselves and disregard other evidence, their self-concepts swing wildly. These kids' identities are often threatened or heightened by a single like or comment on social media. These teens sometimes also struggle with rapid shifts in sexual identity. So it feels physically painful if you try to curtail them. Because that shows that I'm right to be ashamed of them. We sit quietly for a few moments. But you're jumping to the wrong conclusion there. When I `curtail' them, as you put it, it's because I'm trying to do what's right for all of you, therapeutically, in the session. Limiting them is not rejecting them. And that's a typical shame response, to experience a boundary as hurtful. I've seen this pattern before. Sometimes my emotional membrane feels so thin, as if the only filter through which I see life is one which interprets every action as an attack. I look down, looking for the answer somewhere near my ankles. Shadyside Hospital Center for Complementary Medicine in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, offers shiatsu as well as acupuncture and Chinese medicine as components of the center's protocol for cancer patients. Touch-ing a cancer patient not only helps with the physical symptoms; Get the Point Say No to nausea. A recent research team found that the use of acupuncture and acupressure on PC-6 (Inner Gate) took away nausea in two-thirds of the subjects. Acupressure immediately following acupuncture prolonged the antinausea effect in 95 percent of the patients. Points used to treat pain may include any of the points that control the region of the pain.

Remem-ber that acu-points are selected for their effect on a region either locally, adjacent, or distal. For instance, with colon cancer you may not want to needle directly on the abdomen, but may treat the pain safely and effectively by using points on the arms and legs. This is the great advantage that working with acu-points and channels has over other therapies. It doesn't matter what sexual identity a teen chooses; Eating disorders: Eating disorders (which often co-occur with BPD) vary from being excessively concerned about gaining weight to drastically limiting food intake to binging (eating unusually large quantities of food at a single sitting) to purging (self-induced vomiting or excessive laxative usage) to exercising excessively to control weight. If you notice these or other signs of eating disorders in your child, seek out a professional evaluation because these disorders can be deadly. Impulsivity/sensation seeking: Teens and impulsivity go together like French fries and ketchup. However, the kind of impulsivity we're talking about here is more extreme than what most teens do. Many teens experiment with a shoplifting incident or two, but getting caught once usually ends their experiments for good. Problematic impulsivity in teens refers to behaviors like repeated, serious shoplifting, promiscuous sexual behaviors, unusually reckless driving, uncontrolled spending, heavy substance abuse (as opposed to experimentation), and frequent damaging of property. Again, many teens bang up a fender now and then, but you should be concerned if car accidents occur as a result of wild, reckless driving. If you're not sure whether your teen's behavior falls into this category, check with a professional. Pursuing a diagnosis I push at the carpet with my shoes, trying to force it out. I'm just projecting onto you what I really feel and think. Because I am so ashamed of being this messed up, of having parts in the first place. All-or-nothing. So when I think about controlling my switching--or at least learning to--it's like there's this eruption on the inside of me, that by saying `shush' to them I'm silencing them, and by silencing them I'm. I don't know what the right word is, so I look up at her for help. I nod, and study the floor again.