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Magnesium 20 25 Calories 2,000 2,500 Total Fat Less than 65 grams 80 grams Fat Less than 20 grams 25 grams Cholesterol Less than 300 milligrams 300 milligrams Sodium Less than 2,400 milligrams 2,400 milligrams Potassium 3,500 milligrams 3,500 milligrams Total carbohydrate 300 grams 375 grams What originally caused this time-consuming obsessive urge to count all things on the street in Mrs. X, because of which, she always comes much too late to her appointments? Trying to reconstruct something like this is like having a difficult crime case to solve. Detective Columbo always looks for three things in his murder cases: the motive, the opportunity, and the method. The behavioral therapist also looks for three things: the disposition, the trigger, and the maintenance. Besides genetics, it's about the question, which life experiences had a very strong influence on a person, so that he or she later developed a psychic disorder. In CBT, the focus usually is on central beliefs that were the consequence of those past occurrences. For example, the belief I must never say `no' to a request, otherwise I'm a terrible egoist, can lead to living a very stressful life. Those who rigorously follow such an idea are often exploited and overwhelmed with the fulfillment of countless requests - with burnout being a common result. The analysis of the biography now either reveals crucial events which may function as a plausible explanation for this absolutist thinking - or not. Feeling of choking Chills or hot flashes

I bet you've felt a few of those suckers before. Maybe you've even had a panic attack, which is basically when you have intense fear plus a few of those symptoms, and it pops up all of the sudden and prevents you from functioning normally. Panic attacks and physical anxiety symptoms in general are scary as hell. I don't get to that point often, but I have been there before and I've seen it occur in others countless times. When you have a panic attack, it feels like you are going to die. You might even webMD yourself (never webMD yourself) and find that your symptom profile is strikingly similar to a heart attack. I bet that realization did wonders for your anxiety. Here's the thing, though. Dietary fiber 25 grams 30 grams Of course, sometimes people do think more deeply. If Jill had been faced with the same choice, her deeper commitment to healthy eating might have led her to spend the time and effort to scrutinize the nutritional labels to make a more informed decision through central route processing. People who are highly motivated in a topic concentrate more attention on the quality of an argument, or pros and cons for one product over another. An influential study by Rich Petty and colleagues (1983) shows us how a message's relevance to people's goals influences which persuasion route they take. Participants took part in a study on consumer attitudes. They were told that, as a reward for participating, they would be able to choose a product from among a few different brands at the end of the study. Some participants were told they could choose from among different brands of razor blades; Later, when all participants were asked to flip through some ads, they came upon an ad for Edge razor blades. You can imagine that this ad was relevant for participants expecting to choose a brand of razor blades but not for those expecting to choose a toothpaste brand. If not, then the behavioral therapist may take all those little information snippets, form them into a creative story, and hope that no one will ask too many critical questions. Trigger means the critical event that directly starts a symptomatology.

In some cases, it's not very difficult to identify, such as when a person barely survives a plane crash, and afterwards develops symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Such a causation usually seems plausible to most people. But unfortunately, these things are rarely that obvious. Let's take people who suddenly get panic attacks on a regular basis - seemingly out of nowhere. This is a very common phenomenon, and it always raises the question: why is this happening at this exact point in time, and not 2 weeks earlier or a year ago? What is the immediate trigger? In most of these cases, neither a plane crash nor any other traumatic event preceded this. The common answer of CBT to this mystery may seem a bit disappointing and general - it's: accumulation of stress factors. I know it hurts, I know it sucks and it feels like you are going to die, but you will not. People don't die from panic attacks. It just doesn't happen. Your body is a dick, but it's not going to let you self-destruct like that. Even though the emotional pain and physical discomfort may be quite unbearable, anxiety will not physically hurt you. Now that we've gotten that out on the table, we can pack up and go home right? Problem solved? Probably not. Realizing that you are experiencing symptoms of panic and not having a legitimate medical emergency can help to bring down your stress level a little and it might stop you from needlessly calling the ambulance, but it still sucks really bad. That's okay, there's still more that we can do to help. The researchers introduced two other variables. First, half the participants read strong arguments for the Edge razor's quality, such as Special chemically formulated coating eliminates nicks and cuts and prevents rusting.

The other half read weak arguments, such as Designed with the bathroom in mind. Second, one version of the ad featured an attractive celebrity endorsing the Edge razor, whereas the other version featured anonymous, average-looking people endorsing it. What influenced participants' attitudes toward the Edge razor? When participants expected to choose a razor later on--that is, when the Edge ad was relevant to their decision--the most influential factor was the strength of the ad's arguments for the Edge brand's quality. If the arguments were weak, participants disliked the Edge razor; But a very different picture emerged among the participants who did not expect to choose a razor--that is, those to whom the ad was not relevant. They were not influenced by whether the ad's arguments were strong or weak. Instead, their attitudes were influenced by the spokesperson: They liked the Edge brand if it was endorsed by an attractive celebrity spokesperson but not when it was endorsed by the average Joe. And if there should come a person with panic attacks, who actually lives a very calm and stressless life, then a certain explanation for this can sometimes be heard in CBT offices, that (for the convenience of the therapist) cannot be disproved: unconscious stress. The next question is: why do psychic disorders not simply go away by themselves, but persist for months or even years? A few things that maintain such problems - from a CBT point of view - you have already encountered. Depression: social isolation and passivity, which leads to a lack of positive reinforcement. Social skills deficits, which makes contact to other people troublesome and unsatisfying. Self-harming automatic thoughts, which causes events to be seen in a negative light. Anxiety: avoidance and security behavior, which prevents the observation that specific things are not as dangerous as they subjectively appear. In most cases, however, the reinforcement of symptoms must be determined individually to find the maintaining factor. So, what exactly makes it so hard for the anorexic girl to eat a blueberry muffin? What is the gain of refusing to eat and losing weight? I'm going to tell you something really important here and I want you to memorize it. Symptoms of panic are fundamentally incompatible with deep breathing.

Let me say that again. Symptoms of panic are fundamentally incompatible with deep breathing. What I'm trying I say is that the process of breathing deeply, focusing your mind on your breath, and taking in a larger amount of oxygen will start to break down those physiological symptoms of anxiety. Imagine that your anxiety symptoms are a raging fire. Deep breathing is like turning on the sprinklers. The fire might continue to smolder, but it's definitely not going to be raging anymore. The last time you were freaking the hell out due to anxiety and you were in the presence of someone else who told you, Breathe. Just breathe, you probably felt like punching them in the face, right? Note, though, that among people who were motivated to think carefully about the message, the attractiveness of the spokesperson did not influence attitudes: People taking the central route to persuasion are not impressed by those kinds of peripheral cues. Ability to Think Let's revisit Jill, who is now contemplating buying a new computer and comes across a relevant commerical. Other things being equal, Jill will be motivated to think about the commercial's central arguments because they are relevant to her goal of purchasing a new computer. But of course things are not always equal: Perhaps Jill is watching the commercial while she is hungry, hung over, or bombarded with the sounds of a nearby construction site. According to the ELM, even if people are motivated to think carefully about a message, they may be unable to do so because of distractions and other demands on their attention. Under these conditions, people will tend to take the peripheral route to persuasion. This is demonstrated in another study by Petty and colleagues (1976). Participants listened to a recorded message arguing that the tuition at their university should be cut in half. Participants heard either strong arguments (such as The currently high tuition prevents high school students from going to college) or weak arguments (Cutting tuition would lead to increased class size). Those motives are usually more complex than just being thin and looking pretty. One additional thing is also true: sometimes, symptoms unexpectedly just dissolve.