Dysfunctional Automatic Thoughts

Low self-esteem can be the result of various factors, including genetic factors, physical appearance or weight, mental health problems, socioeconomic status, significant emotional experiences, group pressure, or bullying. A person with low self-esteem may show the following characteristics People with low self-esteem tend to criticize themselves. Some depend on the approval and praise of others when evaluating self-esteem. Others can measure their sympathy in terms of success: Others will accept themselves if they succeed, but they will not if they fail. It happens more progressively over time. That's because it's preempted by hormonal shifts that happen slowly as we go through life--it's not overnight. Start a healthy lifestyle when you're young and strong. Delay the aging process! If you're looking for a magic pill to slow aging, I have it for you in a single word: consistency. Consistency will help you develop routines and build momentum toward anything in life you desire. The Five Titans of Health #1: Stay Physically Fit It might surprise you to find out that early humans traveled as much as twelve miles a day while people today walk an average of less than half a mile. Physical fitness should be a priority. The key to seeing through any illusion is not through willpower; ONCE YOU SEE THINGS AS THEY REALLY ARE, YOU CAN NEVER BE DELUDED AGAIN NO GET-OUT CLAUSE Some drinkers, once they get it into their head that it's just fear that prevents them from stopping, try to allay that fear by telling themselves they can always start again if it gets too hard--that quitting doesn't have to be final. If you start off with that attitude, you're very likely to fail sooner or later, because you have allowed doubts to remain in your mind.

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